BE WATER, MY FRIEND

BE WATER, MY FRIEND 

Watch this from Matt Fradd and Jimmy Akin on "Tough Love" in Apologetics: https://youtu.be/73I8hCPI_eg?si=EgSU-A7CiUi7MwJj



I tend to start off polite. But I also match their energy. If they come in hot, I might just respond with guns a blazing, or ignore them. Just depends. Everyone seems to have a preferred style and they want everyone else to be just like them bc they think their own style is always the best. If your intentions are good and pure, then maybe God will use you in the way he needs to for that other person. Let's not get too bogged down by technique. I think Bruce Lee's "be water my friend" approach is wise. 
Some will disagree, I'm sure; that's fine. 
You do you...
Oh and, don't be too fooled by all the public facades of these professional Catholics; they ain't always as kind as their published personas appear to be. I know that from my own direct experience.
I'm not a professional Catholic, but thank God you don't see me in my worst of examples either. (Or maybe you do)

If you want to hear some stories; I've got a few. ;-)

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